![]() (Yes, even if we had a horrible or barely tolerable relationship with our fathers, we women are all attracted to men who are like our fathers in some essential way, and men have the same experience with feeling attracted to women who are somehow like their mothers – even though they may have no idea what those qualities are that are attracting them, and even though they may say they have a terrible relationship with their mother.) There’s a hidden combination of qualities a man has or a woman has that inspires intense attraction.įor us, it could be the first time we lay eyes on a man, and he LOOKS like someone we once loved, or he’s wearing something that triggers a memory, or he smells a bit like our father. We are all attracted – both men and women – in mysterious ways. It works for a man EXACTLY the way it does for us – on a FEELING level.īut there’s a huge difference in how a man’s Romantic Response gets triggered and the way OUR’S gets triggered. ![]() Why’s he so “not ready” – especially if he’s in his 40’s? Why is he being so “squirrely” and immoveable? It’s always just “not a good time” in their lives. I’ve seen men go for years – 2, 5 – even 8! without even TALKING about commitment. If you lean back, step back, and stop Over functioning, they’ll cave in to themselves, “snap-to” and work hard to get back in your “good graces” until they can “slack off again” and STILL keep you around for awhile longer. They’ll try to hang onto their “freedom” as long as they can without making a commitment. They’ll try to keep you at “girlfriend” level as long as they can without making a commitment. If they want you, they want you – and you don’t have to work hard at all to make that happen.īut then, they’ll often do the absolute MINIMUM they have to do to keep you around. ![]() If you feel like you’ve been beating your head against a wall trying to get your man to commit to you, I can help.Įven if you’ve tried everything, and had results once but then everything went back to the way it was, where nothing’s happening for the future, it’s not too late. ![]()
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